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My Mother's Rules" is a humorous, easy to follow self-help guide to managing your emotional life.

My Mother's Rules" is a humorous, easy to follow self-help guide to managing your emotional life.

Using lessons learned on the bench along with humorous anecdotes from her own 30 year marriage, Judge Lynn Toler wrote "Making Marriage Work" as a logical and simple guide to bringing back the practicality lost in relationships over the years.

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Ten Things I Learned in 26 Years of Marriage

Posted by on Apr 6, 2015 in Uncategorized | 16 Comments

10 Things I learned in 26 Years of Marriage     I had more June Cleaver Claire Huxtable genes than I thought. Nothing like love to make you feel oddly domestic in ways you swore you’d never do. I don’t know where they got this from but I did not find that 2 can live […]

On Anger

Posted by on Apr 2, 2015 in Uncategorized | 3 Comments

On Anger I used to get angry a lot.  I used to tangle with that monster at least once a day. As I grew older and saw the negative ramifications of my anger I decided to do something about it. In order to do that I had to understand what anger was and why it […]


Posted by on Mar 31, 2015 in Uncategorized | 5 Comments

TODAY What are you going to do with THIS GIfT? As of last week I decided that I was going to ask myself that question everyday. Today is a singularity. It is something you can’t get back once it’s gone. Another day will come but not this one. Today expires in less than 24 hours from […]

Wants More Respect from wife

Posted by on Mar 24, 2015 in Uncategorized | 5 Comments

Question:   I watch your show everyday as I am on SSID and lost my job due to budget cuts in 2013. First, I have to say that couples don’t know what marriage means when they want to divorce after three weeks. I will be married 34 years later this year, but due to my […]

Self Esteem III: Expanding Your Self Esteem Sources

Posted by on Mar 23, 2015 in Uncategorized | 12 Comments

  Often when people find themselves caught in a relationship where they do not feel valued they get stuck on getting this one significant source to change his/her attitude toward them. It is natural. Your marriage or your relationship with your significant other is the most intimate and constant one you have. It is hard […]